In life we have only two answers Yes or No. We have to learn to choose the right answer. There is no third choice. Well a lot of them prefer to choose the non existing one- ‘I don’t Know’. This choice may take them few steps ahead only to bring them back to square one.
What if somebody is waiting for your answer? You can keep them waiting, but at the end it has to be a Yes or a No.
What if you have to take a risk? Choose to do something different? What if you have to decide something? What if you are asked to do something, which you definitely don’t want to do?
You know deep inside if it is a Yes or a No. Then why not say it loudly? Why do something, without wanting to do. Why do we let our mind rationalize everything? However after listing your pros and cons, if you still reach to an answer which is ‘I don’t know’ or ‘maybe’, then boy, you are hereby tagged as a coward!
It’s best to learn, to say a yes or a no to the right person at the right time. Else you can lose an opportunity, hurt someone’s feelings or you are stuck up with something for the rest of your life.Your actions may or may not be on your side, as a result you can be a let down to your folks. But your voice can be heard, so speak up, let the world know. Even if it is a No, you stood up for it, owing to this attitude, you will always be respected.
Best way to know the answer is to ” Flip a coin, not because it will choose your answer for you, but because the outcome you want to see is the one the you want.”
Mind you, a coin has just two sides-Yes or NO 😉
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